Some time ago a couple asked me for some advice about their 3 years old son's behaviour. In psychiatry, the dictum is that problem in children are often indicative of problems in their environment, and the younger the child, the more strongly this principle holds true. I, therefore, asked them in detail about their interaction with the child. I found out that they both did full-time, quite high-powered, very demanding jobs. Before going to work, they left their only son at the daycare so early that he was still sleeping. They picked him up late and by that time they were all so exhausted that as soon as they got home they put him to bed. On weekends they would still have lingering work so one or the other of them would still be working. After listening to the whole story, I asked them, "Tell me one thing. If you wanted to make a copy of your photo, whose photo would you put on the copying surface?" They looked at me as if I was stupid and said, "Of course, our photo
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