HOW TO PROTECT ONESELF FROM GHEEBAT (BACKBITING)? - 15 (a talk by Mufti Taqi Usmani DB)

 Revealing other people’s flaws

 

A person asked Hadhrat Thanvi (may Allah have mercy on him);

 

“Some people are engaged in committing major sins. Would revealing their flaws and sins be included in Gheebat? My Nafs (inner-self) rationalizes that if their flaws are not revealed to other people they may get deceived by them, and it is necessary to protect Muslims from being deceived.”

 

So, is it okay to disclose people’s sins if hiding them might mean that other people might get deceived by them? Should we commit such a person’s Gheebat or not? 

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