THE LAST ADVICES OF THE HOLY PROPHET (peace be upon him): 33 (talk by Mufti Muhammad Taqi Usmani DB)

 GOOD BEHAVIOUR DOES NOT ENCOURAGE BAD BEHAVIOUR

 

These days we make up excuses that if I treat my domestic servants and employees well, they will become spoiled and will start misbehaving. But we do not reflect on it that the Holy Prophet ﷺ did not give any credence to any such considerations. Because he knew that his treating his servants well encouraged them to do good, as well as stopped them from misbehaviour. And that is why his kind behaviour with Hazrat Anas (may Allah Ta’ala be pleased with him) over a period of ten years did not lead to any misbehaviour. This is the type of good behaviour towards one’s employees and subordinates that the Holy Prophet ﷺ himself practiced, as well as taught the Sahaba to practice.

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