RECTIFYING UNDESIRABLE INTERNAL ATTRIBUTES: 4 (talk by Mufti Taqi Usmani DB)

 USING ANGER APPROPRIATELY

 

Allah Ta’ala has given us this emotion of anger so that if another person attacks your life, your property, your family, your relatives, then you use this emotion of anger to defend them. But if a person starts acting angrily in situations where it is not justified to do so, and where Shariah has prohibited us to express our anger in, then if a person shouts and screams at other people, or hits them in anger, then it is inappropriate use of this emotion. Becoming angry in such situations is Haraam (impermissible). So, there are some situations in which it is appropriate to use anger, and there are some situations in which it is inappropriate to use anger. For example, if a son does something wrong, then it is appropriate for the father to discipline him, or a teacher chastising a student, or a Shaykh a Mureed. It is appropriate to use anger in such situations. In fact, it may be wrong not to use anger at all in such circumstances. On the other hand, using anger in inappropriate situations is a spiritual ill. For example, a guest comes to visit you, and you start scolding him and telling him off. This is inappropriate use of anger, as we should be honouring our guests. Such behaviour is condemnable and should be rectified.

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