HOW TO PROTECT ONESELF FROM GHEEBAT (BACKBITING)? - 14 (a talk by Mufti Taqi Usmani DB)

 Gheebat is a voluntary act

 

Hadhrat Thanvi (may Allah have mercy on him) further said;

 

“Gheebat is a voluntary act. Its treatment is determination and continuously reminding oneself not to engage in it. If a person engages in it, he should skip one meal. That is helpful in giving it up.” (Infas-e-Essa)

 

What Hadhrat Thanvi RE is pointing out is that Gheebat is a voluntary act. It never happens without a person’s volition. If Gheebat was an involuntary act, it would have not been declared Haraam (unlawful) by Allah Ta’ala as Allah Ta’ala has said in the Holy Qur’an;

 

“Allah does not obligate anyone beyond his capacity.” (2:286) 

 

Therefore, it is within a person’s control to stop oneself from committing Gheebat. However, this does require determination and continuing reminders. A person has to make a conscious decision that from now on I will not commit Gheebat, I will not say anything that is against Allah Ta’ala’s wishes. He should also keep reminding himself how great a sin Gheebat is, and that his good deeds will be transferred on the Day of Judgment to the people whose Gheebat he has committed.

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