SEEKING FORGIVENESS FOR GHEEBAT (BACKBITING)? - 1 (a talk by Mufti Taqi Usmani DB)

 The way of apologizing for Gheebat (backbiting)

 

Hadhrat Thanvi (may Allah have mercy on him) said;

 

“If a person has committed someone’s Gheebat, then in addition to doing Istighfar (seeking forgiveness from Allah Ta’ala) he also needs to apologize to the person whose Gheebat he has committed. But telling him the full detail of the Gheebat will hurt his feelings. Therefore, just saying “please forgive me for anything hurtful I may have said”, is sufficient.” (Infas-e-Essa)

 

In this saying Hadhrat Thanvi RE has taught us how to seek forgiveness from a person whose Gheebat we may have committed. Gheebat pertains to the area of Huqooq al-Ibad (rights of people). In committing Gheebat a person violates the rights of another human being and, therefore, these transgressions are not forgiven till the person whose rights have been violated, forgives. If you have hurt someone physically or mentally, or have hurt them in any other way, then doing Istighfar and Taubah (repentance) is not sufficient for forgiveness. Rather, the person whose rights have been violated, has to forgive first.

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